The Power of Your Inner Voice – Key No.1

Little Voice (film)
Little Voice (film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

What is inner voice

We all have an inner voice, a still small sensation that speak to us from deep within when we are about to do the wrong thing or not to do something we should do.

At times this gentle voice also tries to prepare you for some future event, or worn you to be cautious so as to avoid some potential trouble. You can’t hear the voice with your ears, but rather with your minds. In fact it is almost a feeling, and not a voice at all, but it is called a voice because it gives you a quick clear message, so quick that it is almost a flicker. Sometimes causing you to brush it aside. Yet it is so clear that when you ignore it, you can always remember that you heard it, and that you ignored it, and you always regret it

The primary source of wisdom lies within us. This source of divinity can provide guidance for our specific wants and needs, and it can help us to follow our bliss. Listening to your inner voice will assist us to:

* Go within and find your sense of purpose                                                                                                   * Consciously choose to express that purpose                                                                                             * Work with resistance and pain as they come up and release them, let the universe    *              direct and assist you                                                                                                                                             * Reap the rewords of joyful and peaceful life.

Are you eager to live on an abundant, inspired and fulfilling life? Then listening to your inner voice will help you. The inner voice of truth is continually asking to be heard, guiding you to open doors you did not know even exist.

Why you hesitate to listen to your inner voice

You sometimes hesitate to listen to your inner voice due to critical inner voice. The critical inner voice refers to well integrated pattern of destructive thought towards yourself and others. The “voice” that make this internalized dialogue are the root of much of maladaptive behavior.

The Shadow

This critical inner voice is known as “shadow” – it is the most critical obstacles to happiness we face.

The shadow exists within you. It is part of you and yet you spend most of your life running away from it.. But far from being scary, your dark side holds the promise of a better, more fulfilling life. Your shadow makes itself known everyday. It is the reason you get furious over a friend showing up 10 minutes late, yell at people and sabotage your own success at the worst possible time. Until you are able to embrace your dualistic nature, you will continue to hurt yourself and those closest to you and fall short of your potential.

Discover the gifts of your shadow to pierce the veil of your unclaimed self to release you from the past and propel you on a journey to wholeness. No longer living half life, you will be capable of achieving your dreams and reclaim the happiness that is your birthright.

When your inner voice speaks to you

Your inner voice is  “you”, the part of you that knows you so well that it can tenderly alert you in various situations that come up in your life and in essence help you to make wise choices – in other words it is about trusting yourself

By learning to listen to your inner voice you come to know and trust yourself. You begin to learn what is and isn’t right for your life and you trust because you realize you have perfect answers for problems that face you.

Following are some reasons why your inner voice may speak to you gently or nag you:

*  To save you aggravation                                                                                                                                     *  To save your creative energy by protecting you from certain people                                             *  To restore creative energy by urging you to get physically fit.

But sometimes your inner voice may speak to you in a forceful way seeming to set off an alarm system warning you. It does this when you may be about to make a major mistake that will affect the rest of your life, or when your physical body is in danger.

Your inner voice guides you

Your inner voice does more than help you to avoid aggravation, wasted energy or danger. Throughout your life, your inner voice struggles to be heard – over the noisy din of your own thoughts; the pressure put upon you by personal responsibilities, families and friends; and the confusion of the many choices that surround you. It ties to give you a guidance or direction in finding the path that you should walk, so you can best utilize your talent and fulfill the purpose for which you were born.

It is your inner voice that quietly nags you or even badgers you if you have stepped off your path and not living up to your potential. No matter what the reason – whether out of laziness, fear, weakness or circumstance – if you are off ” the path”, or are not being true to your purposes in life, your inner voice will not leave you to peace. The inner voice is therefore the guardian of the “self”.


Are You Perfectly Dressed For That Job Interview?

Single- and double-breasted suit comparison
Single- and double-breasted suit comparison (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Let’s get one thing straight, clothes do not make the man…but they do make a difference. And regardless of whether we like the idea of appearances driving impressions, a man exterior often is perceived as an indicator of what is happening on the interior.

Brown or black shoes? Single or double breasted jacket? Tie or no tie? In our increasingly informal world, knowing how a man should dress for each occasion has become ever more challenging. From work place to wedding to job interviews. You must discover what to look for in a suit, in terms of color, fabric and fit. Learn how to tie bow ties and different knots for ordinary ties.

Fortunately, tasteful and appropriate dressing does not require inordinate amount of time or money. Any man can hit the door in fine shape with only a little forethought and a bit of attention to a few guidelines.

Sales and Business Development, There have been dozens of posts on preparing for an interview and indeed all the things one needs to do to make that job winning impression on the day. And what one wears to an interview has been pretty much covered too. Or has […]

According to the original writer, the advice to all job seekers is to dress up, look sharp to make a good first impression.

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Escaping the Trap of Negative Thinking

The Art of Negative Thinking
The Art of Negative Thinking (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

You are, or should always be in control of your own emotions – it is so said!

Best advice is a positive and practical advice for breaking free from the trap of negative thinking and enjoying life to the fullest.If you are plagued by guilt or worry and find yourself unwillingly falling into the same old self-destructive patterns, then you have what is called “erroneous zones”  – whole facet of your approach to life that act as  barriers to your success and happiness. If you feel that you have no control over your feelings and reactions, you give up the many choices that are available to you – you can take charge of yourself and manage how much you can let difficult times or people affect you.If you spend more times worrying on what you want and need, you will always be disappointed .

This article teaches you how only you can make yourself happy and points the way to true self reliance. If you are still caught up in old labels for yourself and an out-of-date self image, you cancel out your present potential.

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The Psychology of Intimidation


Perfection and apathy both can be caused by fear, feelings of shame and control. We live in an imperfect world and most people, I would suggest, are affected by this to some extent. We are however meant to live in freedom and grace

In this article I try to indicate some traps that affect us as humans.


At some points in their lives, nearly everyone experiences being bullied; by brothers, sisters, neighbours, adults and school mates. Some are easily intimidated and can show up in your body language. Many people dismis it as a normal part of one’s development, but it isn’t. It could work against you.

Bullying can devastate your life. In some extreme it can even lead to self harming, suicide or murder.

The secret is to control your reactions so that the fact that you have been taken aback or overhelmed does not show.

There are several case histories of people whose lives were on the brink of ruin but who fought back against all odds to beat their bullies.
For some the bullying went on for years, and for others less frequently. In each case, the bullying took a different form, from gang bullying, verbal bullying, or even the latest form; cyber and text bullying.

The only thing these people have in common is the determination and and courage to stand up to their tormentors.

Cultivating the inner peace

Keep your cool all times. The way the inner peace is illuminated to tending one’s inner landscape. The lives of outstanding figures such as the Bhuddah, Walt Whitman and Gandhi are used to connect the ideal of inner peace with how real people cultivate peace with their everyday lives. Peacefulness as dynamic, selective and egoless is shown through the constructive act of choosing different ways of life, such as having a smaller family or a more modern career.

Deliberate intimidation tactics

You should be aware that there are intimidations that are deliberate. Some people who are well versed in human nature such as lawyers, doctors and insurance salesmen often employ subtle intimidation techniques aimed to subdue.

For example, one method of intimidation used in large offices is to have huge polished desk and a leather chair with high back. The moment a person enters such an office and is shown to a lower placed seat, the person in the high chair is instantly elevated to the position of power and authority as compared to the one on the visitor’s chair. This deliberately makes you less likely to oppose or question anything you are told. An unsmiling face with constant gaze is part of the ploy.

Sales intimidation

Likewise, in a bid to make people pay huge sums of money, certain institutions or even individuals employ what is known as sales intimidation. It starts with the building or gate entrance which is often large and grand with a huge door that diminishes you as you humbly enter the building. The reception is always well lit and immaculate. The entire setup is formal and scary to the point that a person ends up speaking very politely as they ask for services. This is very common in hotels, insurance companies and even schools.

Live to Your Dreams

No one is better equipped to talk about succeeding against odds than your own self. This article is meant to reveal your personal psychic nurturing system, the supernatural influences or forces that act on the mind and senses, by following the eight golden keys of affirmation and insight to help you develop the capacities needed to nourish confidence, free your spirit and send it soaring in the direction of triumph.

Help me. I am stuck. I am not happy with my life, I don’t seem to find the motivation to make me change or make something happen.

You probably have heard these words from many people before, asking for help to make them move on to a better life – this kind of cry involve everything from getting in shape or finding the right relationship to building self esteem and finding peace of mind and a worthy goal.

How can you get unstuck and begin to move on to the life you really want, the life if your dreams?

The first thing is to be passionate, see inside you and learn to develop the first seven of the eight golden keys below, that will give you the power to take action and enable you to achieve your goals and dreams. You will find out how to listen and trust your inner voice, build your self esteem and find out how to let go the past and begin to take responsibility for your actions, past, present and future. You will discover how to use your will to overcome virtually any obstacle you meet. You will learn how to do things alone without the help of others. You will discover how to motivate yourself  by developing your own “personal reserve of tricks”.

Then most importantly, you will be able to learn and use the eighth key, the most important of the eight keys, the key that ask you to be confident, tap into your spirituality and by a simple prayer of your faith, take advantage of the most powerful force in the whole universe.

By reading this article and following the eight golden keys, you will soon have the power, whatever the odds, to change or advance careers, let go of negative friendship to healthy relationship, face life with renewed vigor and make those dreams come true.

Here are the eight  golden keys:

1. The power of your inner voice – the sensation that speak to us from deep within. Tap          to your inner voice, know and trust yourself. Your inner voice is about trusting yourself.          Listen to it.

2. Self esteem – respect and value yourself, take responsibility for your actions, past,                  present and future.

3. Let go the past and move on – learn how to do things independently and enjoy them,          liberate yourself.

4. Admitting – take responsibility and acquire maturity for yourself. Confess, own up,                  admit it. Because until you acknowledge your wrong doing, you wont get past your                sticking point and grow, thrive and mature.

5. Your will-power – strengthen yourself, develop a stronger sense of your being. Make a          reasoned choice or decision.

6. Be independent – learn to be alone with yourself, be focused and stay motivated. Be              autonomous, function independently without the help or control of others. That does            not mean you become hermit, There will always be a time and place for others in your          life, but your center of power will come from you.

7. Get yourself to do what you want – motivate yourself

8. Spirituality and prayer – inspire yourself, discover genuine power of prayer.

There is plenty to achieve by following the eight golden rules of living. You will be able to accomplish what is important for you – power to advance in your career or change career if in wrong path – drop friends or acquaintances who are bad for you and meet people who are in tune with your true self. You will be able to let go a negative romantic relationship and move on.

You will discover how to use your time alone to reach inward and renew and energize yourself. Above all, you will be able to find more fulfilling meaningful life.

Leadership Behaviors Drive Diversity Dividends




Adapting leadership styles to team members, based on key goals and tasks is so important  and knowing when to delegate, support or direct is critical. By consistently using this powerful techniques, leaders can develop and retain competent, motivated and confident employees. This can be a priceless guide to personalized leadership that elicits the best performance from your team, and best bottom line for any business.

In his article, the author stressed the importance of  having and leveraging diversity on his team.

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Diverse Communication Styles

No matter where we live or what we do, we deal with people using a wide variety of communication styles every day. At work, in the market place and at home, diverse communication styles present opportunities for growth on the one hand and misunderstanding on the other.

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A breakthrough in communication styles is necessary for managers, team leaders, community leaders, educators and even individuals as they work with others to overcome frustrations, prevent mistakes and save time and money.

According to the author of this article, one has to be clear, simple and focused when communicating with others.

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Innovation and Entrepreneurship

This article present innovation and entrepreneurship as a purposeful and systematic discipline that explains and present the challenges and opportunities of new entrepreneur, and what he needs to know and do to succeed.

According to the author, Stephen Lahey, cultivating a strong culture of entrepreneurial thinking is the primary goal.

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Be Yourself and Be Passionate

We all do have that feeling of not being good enough. The only difference is that it affects different people in different ways.

It depends on how much power you give to the thought of “not good enough”. Do you let that thought blackmail you or do you remain as the stillness behind it. Mark you that even good authors and entrepreneurs don’t feel good enough all the time.

The mind will always be afraid, but that is no reason to stop you.

Do not let expectations hinder you. If I was writing this article without expectations I could not start wondering if you were going to like it or not, because that would be expectation.

You expect something to happen and it isn’t happening, then you immediately go into not-good-enough mood.

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The Inspiring Leadership


The inspiring people who lead with integrity, move things forward, garner commitment from others and are willing to ask the tough questions when necessary are the real leaders who generate and sustain cultures of character in organizations. Decent People, decent company puts the power to develop the core qualities of leadership character into the hands of anyone dedicated to bringing integrity, respect and personal responsibility back to the work place.

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